There are several reason why I haven't blogged in a while, but this is probably the main one. For those of you who haven't heard Asher broke his leg (his tibia to be exact). He was going down a curvy slide at the park (during one of the only nice days we've had in 2010 by the way) and his foot got caught behind him and his body kept going forward. SNAP. I heard the bone brake and let me tell you I wish I could forget that sound. It was a nightmare!!! So we have been keeping things mellow at home while his leg heals in his GINORMOUS and very heavy cast. I carry this kid everywhere now, which I was not used to since he basically got too heavy for me when he was like 12 months old. Now it's pretty much like having a 30 lb baby who can talk but can't walk. I have to say we are incredibly fortunate that the bone was not displaced and should heal in a matter of weeks and no surgery was required. He didn't really sleep for the first few nights but it's now been two weeks and I think he's gotten pretty used to his limitations (although I'm sure he's very uncomfortable).
The cast goes right up to his diaper. We've had to get creative when dressing him.
And of course he's still the same Asher so I am very busy trying to keep him from braking his other leg.
We have aquired about 9/10 of these toys since he broke his leg (gotta love garage sales) and my living room looks like I run a day care. Oh well. Once his cast is off the toys will go back in his room.
Since he is pretty much imobile, and it has rained almost every day since he got his cast on, he has become quite the Thomas the Tank Engine fan. He begs to watch "Dah-mas" every morning. And how do you like my artistry on his cast?
We're just trying to keep him occupied and happy. My house is a mess and I rarely shower anymore (TMI, sorry) but really I am impressed with how well Asher has adjusted. He is still our happy boy!
People are always very nice when we go to the store, etc. They always talk to him and ask about his leg. I have had like 10 moms of boys tell me "Oh yeah. This is the first of many ER visits you will probably have." You may think that this would make me nervous, but in a selfish way it actually comforts me that it wasn't completely my fault. I feel like there has to be something I should have done to avoid it, but I know I have to stop rehashing the day. I think the hardest part, so far, of being a mom is trying to find the balance between protecting your child and overprotecting your child.